It’s a fairly common scenario: women head to the bar for a night out, and they’re approached by men looking to shoot their shot.

It’s often harmless and ends with some shared drinks, and if all parties are nice and pleasant, it can end with some shared laughs and perhaps more.

But one TikTok user was taken aback when a man she chatted with while out with a gal pal thought he was entitled to a kiss – and she’s just not that easily attainable.

The woman took to TikTok to share the experience, and scolded him for assuming that he could “bag” her after just a night of talking. She shared that he also dropped some red flags through the night that she didn’t want to go into.

She sums up the scolding with that if men think they can get with women above their level, they need to, “Bump it up, babe. Add tax.”