From the outside looking in, most people would assume that Gisele Bündchen and Tom Brady have a perfect life.

They’re both beautiful and successful, high-profile celebrities with promising futures.

But it’s one of the partner’s futures that has the two in an epic spat, and Bündchen has reportedly left the family compound as a result.

Page Six reports, “Tom and Gisele are in a fight right now. There’s been trouble in the marriage over his decision to un-retire. Gisele has always been the one with the kids. They had agreed he would retire to focus on the family, then he changed his mind.”

Oops. Probably should have consulted the ol’ ball-and-chain over these sweeping life choices, Brady.

The Bucs quarterback missed 11 training days in August, and said of the absence, “It’s all personal … everyone’s got different situations they’re dealing with. We all have really unique challenges to our life. I’m 45 years old, man. There’s a lot of s–t going on.”

Another source said of the rift, “They have a fiery relationship. Gisele is a bit hot-headed — she has that Brazilian heat!”

In a battle between Gisele and Tom, the real loser is anyone who tries to get in the middle. For now, Gisele is staying away and the two will continue to duke it out over Brady’s decision to retire-not-retire and leave her continuing to hold the bag with their kids.