While it may have seemed sudden and devastating for Tom Brady to hear that Gisele Bundchen wanted a divorce, she checked out long ago.

A source recently told People that Gisele “has lived her own life for years while Tom played football, so she is not afraid to do things by herself.”

Brady made have felt blind-sided, but Bundchen is “dealing with issues that have been plaguing her for a long time,” an inside source told People. The same source added that it “was hard at first, but enough time has passed that she is settling in.”

Gisele is focused on their kids through the split, the source saying, “Gisele is great with her children and radiates happiness when either one or both are around.” They mentioned that the kids “will be with both parents and should come out of this in good shape.”

The People source also failed to mention that Bundchen made more money than Brady … so she could have left at any point in the relationship.