“For the Girls” podcaster and influencer Becca Moore took to TikTok this week to share all the red flags she missed with a toxic ex.

And they’re pretty bad.

Becca Moore describes huge red flag levels of emotional abuse and manipulation, being called names and being insulted for her boob job.

At one point, she explains a friend hid her ID to keep Moore from going on a trip with the ex. At the time, she was angry – but now she wishes she had never found the ID and gone with him.

Hoping to open people’s eyes to the manipulations of abusers, toxic people, Moore gets honest about how badly she was treated.