Influencer Becca Moore is talking about the concept of love bombing – and the fact that it actually works.

She asked herself how her last crazy relationship even happened; “How did that guy get me to date him? Oh, he was a girl boss. Gatekeeping, gaslighting girl boss – a love bomber. He was love bombing me.”

Moore says that men have been getting away with being evil for too long, and it’s her turn.

“Instead of playing hard to get, be a girl boss. Make him think you’re a little bit obsessed with him. Just a little bit. You know you’re doing it right if he’s a little scared.”

Commenters seemed to agree, with one suggesting, “Live. Laugh. Lovebomb.” To which the creator replied, “omg. Why didn’t I think of that.”

She does add the caveat that she’s been giving her friends that advice for a while, and they’re all still single – so maybe it won’t work. But what matters in life? “Having fun.”